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Dear friends, I rejoice at being with you again. When I see you, I do not so much see you as the physical bodies that you look at in the mirror. It is your inside that I feel and see, the inner movements of your thoughts, feelings and emotions. I am here to support you on your journey.

There is a theme that I would like to discuss today that has had a great impact on you throughout your history on earth. It is about sexuality and how it is experienced by men and women.

This is not an easy subject. Sexuality has become burdened with many judgments, fears and emotions. Hardly any aspect of it is spontaneous and self-evident anymore. This is the same as saying that the childlike aspect of sexuality, the aspect of the freely exploring innocent child, has become lost. You are full of fear and tension when it comes to sexually expressing yourself.

I want to address this burden in this channeling, but first I’d like to say a little about what sexuality means from a spiritual perspective.

Sexuality is the dancing together of male and female energies. Originally sexuality was more than a physical act. It was meant to be a dance in which all levels or aspects of you and your partner participate.

I will distinguish among four levels or aspects that can play a role in this dance of energies.

Four aspects of the sexual experience

First, there is the physical level, the aspect of the physical body. The body is innocent. The body knows sexual desire and lust and this is something that is spontaneously present within the body. The body seeks gratification of its desires and it is the human, or the soul consciousness in the human, that determines the way in which the sexual desire is applied and manifested. Again, the body is innocent. It knows lust and desire. There is nothing wrong with that. It can be a source of fun, play and enjoyment. But the body cannot itself choose in what way it is going to express its sexual energy. It is you the human being who is in charge and the body needs your leadership.

When you would like to experience sexuality in the most loving way, the seat of leadership will be in the heart. When you let your heart take charge of your sexual energy, it will find its most joyful expression. The alternative is to let either your thoughts (judgments) or your emotions rule the sexual flow and you will see that this will cause several blockages in your energy, but I will speak of this below.

The second aspect of the sexual dance I wish to distinguish is the emotional level. Sexual union is a deeply emotional act. If you ignore this aspect, you are not fully present in the act and you cut yourself off from the real meaning of sexuality.

In a previous channeling called “Dealing with emotions,” we have gone into the issue of emotions extensively. We highlighted the powerful emotions of fear, anger and sadness and discussed how they can take you out of your center. When any of these powerful emotions is working in a relationship between two people and they are not consciously recognized and addressed, it will come up when they are intimate together. These emotions may cause psychological reactions of resistance or closing down when you are physically intimate, or the body may be unable to feel lust or excitement.

Whenever there are these psychological or physical blockages, it is important to deal with them at the level at which they have arisen: the emotional level. When you try to take away physical symptoms without looking at the underlying emotional dynamic, you are disrespectful of yourself and your body. When the body resists intimacy it gives you a message, pure and clear, that there is an emotional blockage. This may be due to a problem between you and your partner, or it may be an emotional hurt you carry with you from the past. Whatever it is, it needs to be addressed and taken care of in a gentle and loving way before the sexual energy can flow freely.

Next to the emotional level is the level of the heart, which is the seat of feeling. In the same channeling I just mentioned (“Dealing with emotions”), we distinguished between emotions and feelings. Feelings belong to the domain of intuition and inner knowing. Your feeling side speaks to you through quiet whispers, filled with wisdom and compassion. Emotions are more dramatic in nature and we called them “reactions of misunderstanding,” for that is what they essentially are: explosions of not understanding what is happening to you. (See the channeling for clarification.)

When the heart opens up between sexual partners there is trust, love and safety between them. When the heart is present in a sexual meeting, you allow your intuition to take note of what is happening between you when you get physically intimate. You do not hide your emotions, you speak openly of them. Old pain may surface and it is accepted as such. You are accepted as you are and this kind of acceptance is the greatest healing power there is. When you connect your heart energy with your sexual energy, great healing can take place in an area that is much in need of it.

However, the heart can also play a subtle role in preventing you from experiencing sexuality in a joyful, loving way. The heart may have closed itself off from the joy of sexuality for different reasons. First there may be a desire in the heart to rise above the physical reality of earth. Second there may be religious dogmas at work that keep the heart from opening up to what sexuality really is. I will address both of these issues now.

The heart can have a strong inclination to rise above the dense plane of material reality. It is a kind of homesickness. There may be a longing there for unity that is not at all aimed at sexual union, but in fact carries within it a subtle rejection of the earth realm (and of sexuality as well). Many of you know the desire to transcend this reality. Many of you remember the energy of love and harmony that you have experienced in non-material realms before you incarnated on earth. Your heart cries out for the ease and the lightness of this vibration. You try to drink in this energy when you meditate. Often the higher chakras are activated in this way, meaning the heart, the throat, the third eye and the crown chakra. They open up, while the lower three chakras (solar plexus, belly and tail bone) which are vital to your earthly self are more or less abandoned.

In a more unnatural way, this also happens when you take drugs. When you take mind-expanding substances, the upper chakras are artificially ripped open and you can temporarily experience ecstasy and bliss that make you forget the dense and heavy aspect of earth reality.

Although the desire and the longing for transcendence are understandable, it is important to make peace with earth reality. Otherwise you will create an artificial separation between the upper part and the lower part of your energy field. You will give preference to being in the upper part of your aura with your consciousness and you will grow a subtle or overt resistance to the reality of the body, the emotions and sexuality. This creates an imbalance in your energy field

When you are homesick in this way, try to feel the reason and purpose for your being on earth right now. Your reason to be here is not to transcend earth but to bring Home down to earth. This is a sacred journey.

The second reason for the heart to shy away from sexuality is religious dogmas, often from past lives. There may have been lives in which you took vows of chastity or in which you were taught to feel shame or guilt about bodily pleasure and sexuality. These energies may still linger in your heart. Because of them you may have negative judgments about or subtle resistance to physical intimacy. These judgments and sentiments do not rest on truth. Again I wish to say that the body itself is innocent. Lust, desire and all the physical processes that make you long for sexual union are natural, healthy processes. The imbalances that occur in the area of sexuality are almost always due to the non-physical levels, of which I have now discussed two.

The fourth and last level is the aspect of the mind. On the mental level there can be moral or spiritual beliefs that keep you from enjoying sexuality. Most of these beliefs are religious in nature.

On the spiritual level you may feel that the physical body is a kind of prison. The non-physical reality of the “higher realms” (as you call them, not I) is so glorified that the physical reality gets undervalued. This occurs frequently among lightworkers. Especially among them there often is resistance to the pleasure and enjoyment that sexuality can provide. This stems partly from religious and moral beliefs and partly from sheer inexperience with this aspect of life. Most lightworker souls have spent many lifetimes as priests, nuns or similar roles, withdrawn from the community, without a partner or family. They focused so much on the spiritual that the area of sexuality was neglected.

In spiritual or religious people there is often a lack of respect for the body in its natural expression. This is truly regrettable for it is the expression into matter that is regarded on our side to be the most sacred journey for a soul to go on. To sow and reap the seeds of your divinity so far away from Home in the reality of matter and form is a sacred undertaking. It is a divine, creative act of the highest order.

Perhaps you have at some time been present at someone’s deathbed or you have witnessed a childbirth. In those moments, the souls enters or lets go of the dance with matter. Both points in time are surrounded by an atmosphere of sacredness. You can sense this as a deep, enveloping silence filled with honor which announces the coming or leaving of the soul. There is but the deepest respect on our side of the veil for what you do at those moments. The dance with matter is sacred. And you detest it so often!

Sexuality in its true meaning is a dance in matter which at the same time rises above matter. In balanced sexual self-expression you transcend material reality without ignoring or repressing it, without abandoning the lower three chakras and without seeking ecstasy only through the upper chakras. Complete sexuality integrates all levels of your being. Sexuality bridges the gap between matter and spirit.

When two people are physically intimate in a loving way, all the cells in their body vibrate a little faster – they start to dance a little. A gateway is opened to an energetic reality with a slightly higher vibration and a lighter feeling. After a sexual joining in which all of you participates – your body, soul and mind – you feel peaceful and joyful at the same time. There is a quiet ecstasy. The cells of your body have tasted the energy of love and in that moment you brought the reality of Love a little closer to you. You channeled the divine energy of Love that so dearly wishes to flow through you and that has only the greatest respect for your sexual nature.

If the energy on all four levels flows together in a sexual joining, it is an act of divine creation. That children are being born from such an act is only natural. When the dance of male and female is performed in such a joyous way, only goodness and sweetness can come of it. If a child is conceived in such a way, it enters the earth realm on a slide of love and light. It is the most loving welcome that a soul can have on earth.

Because the sexual energies are so precious, we ask you: please deal respectfully with your sexuality. When there are problems, fears or tensions around it, do not judge sexuality in itself or give up on it, for it is a natural part of you and a sacred one.

Sexual problems and the battle of the sexes

I would now like to go into the history of sexuality and then say something about the specific problems that women and men experience nowadays in their sexual self-expression.

Much has happened in the area of the sexual. At its core sexuality carries a great potential of light, but because of that there is also the potential for great misuse. The history I wish to speak of is one of the power struggle between men and women. This history is ancient and actually began at the time when the extra-terrestrial galactic empires started to interfere with life on earth. (See the “Lightworker series” on this website for a detailed account of this process). Before that earth was a kind of paradise, a Garden of Eden in which beauty and innocence prevailed. We will not discuss this era here but will simply note that you are in the end phase of a power struggle that is much older than the 5,000 years of written history.

In the last stage of this history, men clearly played the role of perpetrator and oppressor. But it was not always so. There have been times in which the woman was much more powerful in the public as well as the private domain of life. She oppressed the male energy as well in cruel and sadistic ways. Woman is not naturally the oppressed or subdued sex, you know, nor is she by definition the most loving sex. Your stereotypes of women as sweet but powerless and of men as tough but insensitive say more about the last phase of the above mentioned history than about men and women as such.

There have been times predating written history in which matriarchal societies were regarded as standard. In those times women also used their energies in a destructive way, being disrespectful of the individual life force and creativity in each human being. There was a time when women had power over men. Women controlled and manipulated men by using the powers of emotion and intuition that they have a natural affinity with. They also used their psychic abilities to control men. For example there were sacrifices and rituals where men were tortured and killed.

I want to stress for your official history that this aspect draws a one sided picture of the relation between men and women. The oppression of woman by man has been evident for the whole period covered by your written history. But the grudge and hatred that men have displayed (and may still display) against women has not come from nothing. In addition to the cultural traditions and habits that influence them, there are also deep emotional wounds in the collective male soul that stem from a much older era.

Without going into detail about this era, I would like to invite you to feel for yourself whether it is possible that you experienced this. For women the question is: can you imagine that you exerted power over men once and that you successfully tried to control their energy? And for men the question is: can you imagine that this took place on a large scale and that you were “the weaker sex?” Maybe you will receive certain images or fantasies by asking this question inside. Let your intuition show you and watch the emotions that surface. This may be surprising.

Within the collective male, soul hatred and resentment had arisen because of this ancient history. This has come out in oppression of the female energy in the area of politics but also in the area of religion, particularly through the church. The idea that sexuality is sinful or at best a necessary evil is a male line of thinking that was influenced by hatred and grudges resulting from the repression of male sexuality in another era. Male sexuality was at that time considered to be an instrument for procreation without respect for the feeling side of men and the emotional ties between a father and his children. Often children were raised by the mother in separation from the father and hardly any attention was paid to what the father thought and wanted. Important values were passed on through the mother figure and the inferiority of men was one such value. Man was a workhorse rather than an equal partner.

In addition to the church being a bulwark of frustrated male energy, the world of science also displays hostility to the female energy. Although science and religion are in many respect natural enemies, they are united in their resistance to the intuitive, flowing aspect of the female energy. The church dogmas are rigid and stifling but the scientific method is limiting too in another manner. While the impetus behind modern science was enlightening and innovative (in the desire to dethrone false authority), it has gotten stuck in a narrow kind of rational thinking that doesn’t allow the female energy to participate. Scientific thinking is analytical and logical but it does not open up enough to the imagination and to extrasensory (intuitive) sources of observation. The aversion that many scientists have to “the paranormal” and to anything that cannot be explained by rational reasoning is however partly due to a soul memory of pain and humiliation dating back to a time when psychic powers were abused by women and were used against them as an instrument of manipulation.

I speak of this ancient history because I would like to make clear that in the “battle of the sexes” there are ultimately no offenders and victims, no “good guys and bad guys,” because you all have been both. It has been a struggle between the male and the female energies in which these energies became opposites, whereas they originally were complementary to each other. In this day and age both men and women are invited to join forces again and to rediscover the joy and honor of the original dance of female and male.

Essentially the female energy is leading and inspiring while the male energy is serving and protecting. The female energy is the inspiration behind any creation; the male aspect takes care of the manifestation in form and action. Both energies work through every human, through every individual, whether male or female. Whether you are a man or a woman is not really relevant; it is the balance and relationship between both energies within you that counts.

Blockages in female sexuality

I will now speak of energy blockages in the area of sexuality which specifically apply to women or men. In women, it is the area of the first and second chakra (tail bone and umbilicus) that is most battered and hurt as a result of sexual oppression and violence over the centuries. For quite some millennia women have been framed into a subservient role in almost all areas of society and this still goes for many places on earth. With regard to sexuality, this inequality manifested as rape, assault and humiliation on a large scale. As a result of this many women, indeed the collective female soul, have suffered incredibly. There are deep emotional wounds which need time, love and utmost care to heal.

Often the drive for sexual union is felt by women as a longing of the heart or as a spiritual feeling. But when they get physically intimate they may find that they cannot express their sexual energy freely because of energy blockages in the first and second chakra. In those energy centers there are (soul) memories of sexuality that was forced upon them and humiliated them. These experiences were so painful that the woman withdrew her energy, her consciousness from the area of the belly. When this part of the body is now approached again in a sexual way, the muscles instinctively tighten or the emotional body automatically signals resistance. The physical cells are aware of the trauma and do not go along so easily with the invitation to dance. They want to shut off and create a barrier to protect you from more aggression. This reaction is utterly understandable and should always be dealt with in a most respectful way. Using any kind of force to take away the resistance is in a way violating the hurt centers again.

When you have these emotions as a woman, it is very important to become fully aware of them; there may be anger there, resistance or fear with regard to physical intimacy. And all of these emotions are often older than the relationship you are in, older even than this lifetime. There may be very old traumas in those lowest chakras that have caused deep emotional scars.

Specifically I would advise women who recognize this pain to get acquainted with lifetimes in which they were the offender/perpetrator (as opposed to victim). Or if you find it difficult to access previous lifetimes, get in touch with the “energy of the offender or powerful woman” inside you. This may sound very strange but the reason is this. When you have been the victim of sexual violence this has caused a lot of anger in your energy field. There may be anger there from several lifetimes. This anger blocks you and keeps you imprisoned in a feeling of powerlessness and victimhood. To release anger you need understanding. You need to understand why and what for; you need to see the larger picture. When you can imagine yourself as a powerful woman who could be merciless and cruel towards men and feel inside that this is also a part of you, then the anger can dissolve. A more thoroughgoing understanding can arise, an inside knowing that you are part of a larger karmic story in which you played both the role of offender and of victim. It is nearly impossible to release your emotions of pain, powerlessness and victimhood without also looking at the other side of you, the “dark side.”

You need not necessarily go back to past lifetimes to recognize this dark part inside you. You can also become more aware of it by watching yourself in your day-to-day life. When you feel this energy (e.g. the will to exert power or hurt others), you can sense that you have not only been the helpless victim of outside circumstances. There is a karmic tie between offender and victim; both roles reflect aspects of yourself.

As soon as you know and accept your dark side, you can look at your own inner wounds in a different way and start to forgive. When there is understanding, anger can dissolve and you can get in touch with the layers of emotions beneath: the sadness, the grief, the pain that is there on many levels, also in the body itself.

It is very important for women to acknowledge the offender aspect in themselves and to work with it. When there is hatred and grudges in you with regard to sexuality, realize that the more hatred and anger you feel, the more you identify with the role of victim and the more you rob yourself of your freedom. Try to feel inside you that in the arena of sexuality a karmic game is being played out in which you have fulfilled both roles, the good guy as well as the bad guy. From there you can get to a place of forgiveness – forgiving yourself as well as someone else. Things happen for a reason. Acts of violence and repression may seem meaningless, but there is always a story behind them. And whenever there is sexual violence involved it leaves deep impressions on all four levels of the human being.

Blockages in male sexuality

With regard to the male experience of sexuality, the blockages that occur are mostly on the level of the heart or the head. At these levels there may be a fear of surrendering, a fear of deep emotional intimacy. Most of the time this fear reaches farther back than you can remember. It relates to the era in which women dominated men. This made the game of sexual attraction, that initially was innocent and spontaneous, threatening. Men learned that it was dangerous to openly show their emotions and open their heart to their partner.

Within men there are deep seated fears about surrendering to their feeling side, and these fears need not necessarily manifest on the physical level. They may participate in the physical act of sex while keeping their feelings separate. So the man may be sexually present at the physical level while his feeling nature is (partially) absent. His emotions are locked away because of his fear to open up and become vulnerable to rejection once again. There are old soul remembrances there of being abandoned and emotionally scarred. 

Patience and love

In general the energy blockages are somewhat different in men and women. Therefore it is very important to communicate openly with each other about what you feel and sense when you are together. When you truly trust your partner, you can investigate without shame where your sexual energy gets stuck when you are intimate. This you can do by simply becoming aware, when there is a flow of excitement and intimacy arising between you, to what extent you are allowing yourself to feel and express it. See if you feel stuck or blocked in any part of your body or in any part of your emotions and feelings. Do you feel a warm glow in your heart when you are together? Do you feel a spiritual openness towards the other? Are you prepared to meet the other in his or her totality?

It sounds strange but you are afraid of real intimacy. You all strongly desire a fulfilling relationship. On the streets almost every billboard refers to the ideal of an emotionally and sexually gratifying relationship. But true intimacy frightens you. When someone else comes very close and you are asked to take off all your masks, all kinds of inhibitions arise that you were not aware of. In the moments that they surface try not to judge yourself for it. Instead see it is an opportunity to investigate those inhibitions and blockages within you. No one is free of them. Nearly all people have blockages that prevent them from experiencing sexuality in the full sense that I described in the beginning. That is why I want to ask you all to look at the flow of sexual energy inside you with loving awareness – whether you are alone or in a relationship – and to treat those blockages you find with care and respect. Force is the worst counselor in these matters. Patience and love are vital.

Keep the longing for a true and complete experience of sexuality alive! You need not throw away the baby with the bath water. The desire is sound. The road to a full and joyful experience of sexuality may be long and winding. But along the road you will grow love and compassion for yourself as well as for others, and this is so immensely valuable in your human world.

You are healing an ancient history of struggle between men and women. The male and female energies want to come together again and join in a dance of joy and creativity. Anything that you contribute to this at an individual level has a positive influence on the collective soul of men and women. Your self-love makes the energies of patience and love available for others.

網頁直譯~

亲爱的朋友，我再高興在是以您。 当我看見您时，我非常沒看見您作为您看在鏡子的体格。 它是我感覺并且看見的您的裡面，您的想法的內在運動，感覺和情感。 我在這裡支持您您的旅途的。

有我希望今天談論那有對您的巨大衝擊在您的在地球上的歷史中的題材。 它是關於性別，并且它怎麼由男人和婦女體驗。

這不是一個容易的主題。 性別变得負擔激动許多評斷、恐懼和。 幾乎不所有方面的它再是自發和不言而喻的。 這是相同的象說性別的純稚方面，自由地探索的無辜的孩子的方面，变得失去。 您恐懼和緊張有很多當談到性自我表達。

我想要演講在這開水道的這負擔，但是我希望首先說一点關於什麼性別从一個精神方面意味。

性別一起是跳舞男性和女性能量。 最初性別比一次物理行動是更多。 被认为是您和您的夥伴的所有水平或方面参加的舞蹈。

我在能量這個舞蹈可能扮演一個角色的四個水平或方面之中將區別。

性经验的四個方面

首先，有实际水平，体格的方面。身體是無辜的。 身體知道性欲和情熱和這是在身體之內本能地是存在的事。身體尋找它的慾望的稱心，并且它是人或者在人的靈魂知覺，確定方式性欲是應用的并且體現。 再次，身體是無辜的。 它知道情熱和慾望。 那没有错。它可以是樂趣、戲劇和享受的來源。 但是身體不可能本身選擇用什麼方式它表達它的性能量。 它是您是負責的人和身體需要您的領導。

當您希望體驗性別用最愛戀的方式，領導位子在心臟。 當您讓您的心臟負責您的性能量，它將發現它的最快樂的表示。 選擇是讓或者您的想法(評斷)或您的情感統治性流程，并且您看見這在您的能量將導致幾封鎖，但是我下面將講話此。

我希望區別性舞蹈的第二方面是情感水平。 性联盟是一次深深地情感行動。 如果您忽略這個方面，您不是充分地存在行動，并且您切開自己從性別的真正的意思。

在称「应付的一早先開水道情感」，我們廣泛地进入情感的问题。 我們突出了恐懼、憤怒和悲傷的強有力的情感并且談論了他們怎麼可以採取您在您的中心外面。當這些強有力的情感中的任一在二個人之间的一個關係运作，并且他們沒有有意識地被认可并且沒有演講，它將出来，當他們一起是親密的。這些情感也许導致抵抗或閉合值的下來的心理反應，当您是完全親密的时，或者身體也许无法感覺情熱或興奮。

每當有這些心理或物理封鎖，涉及他們在他們升起了的水平是重要的： 情感水平。当您设法拿走物理症狀时，无需看部下情感動態，您是不恭的你自己和您的身体。 當它给予您一則消息的身體抵抗親熱，純淨和清楚，有情感封鎖。這也许归结于在您和您的夥伴之間的一個問題，或者它也许是您運載與您從過去的情感創傷。什麼它是，它需要演講和照顾的一個柔和和愛戀的方式，在性能量可能自由之前地流動。

在情感水平旁邊是心臟的水平，是感覺位子。在開水道我提及的同樣(「应付情感")，我們區別了在情感和感覺之間。 感覺屬於領域直覺和內在知道。您的感覺邊与您谈话通过安靜的耳語，充满智慧和同情。 情感是劇烈本质上，并且我們称他們「誤解的反應」，那的是什麼他們本質上是：爆炸不瞭解什麼发生在您身上。 (為闡明参见開闢。)

当心臟開放在性伴侣之間时有信任，愛和在他们之間的安全。 当心臟是存在一次性會議时，您允许您的直覺注意到什麼發生在您之間，当您得到完全親密时。您不掩藏您的情感，您公開講話他們。 老痛苦也许浮出水面，并且同樣地被接受。 您被接受，当您是，并且这种採納是那裡最巨大的醫治用的力量是。当您用您的性能量时連接您的心臟能量，偉大癒合在是需要它的區域可能發生。

然而，心臟在防止您可能也扮演一個微妙的角色體驗性別用一個快樂，愛戀的方式。 心臟也许结束了自己因不同的原因從性別喜悅。首先在心臟也许有一個慾望上升在地球的物理現實之上。 其次也许有保留從開放的心臟到的宗教教條在工作什麼性別真正地是。 我現在將论及這兩個问题。

心臟可能有一個強的傾向在物質現實之上密集的飛機上升。 它是一种鄉思。也许有渴望那裡為不是瞄準的性联盟的團結，但是在它里面實際上運載地球領土的微妙的拒绝(和性別)。 你們知道慾望超越這現實。你們记得您在非物質的領土體驗了在您之前在地球上體現愛的能量和和諧。 您的心臟急切需要舒適和這振動的輕微。 当您思考时，您在這能量设法喝。通常這樣激活更高的chakras，意味心臟、喉頭、三只眼和冠chakra。 他們開放，而更低的三chakras (腹腔神经丛、腹部和尾骨)對您的塵世自已是重要的或多或少被放棄。

用一個更加不自然的方式，当您服药，這也發生。 当您採取引起幻覺物質时，上部chakras是人工地被剝去的開放的，并且您能臨時地體驗使您忘記地球現實的密集和重的方面的銷魂和極樂。

雖然慾望和渴望的卓绝是可理解的，得到與地球現實的和平是重要的。 否則您將創造在上部和您的能量領域之間的低部的人為分離。 您將給特選在您的氣氛的上部以您的知覺，并且您將生長對身體、情感和性別的現實的微妙或公開抵抗。 這在您的能量領域創造一種不平衡狀態

当您這樣时思鄉病，设法現在感覺您的原因和目的在地球上。 您的原因在这里不是超越地球，但是帶來在家現實。 這是一次神聖的旅途。

心臟的第二個原因避開遠離性別是宗教教條，經常從過去生活。 也许有您採取貞潔誓願或在的生活哪些您被教感覺關於身體樂趣和性別的羞辱或罪狀。這些能量在您的心臟也许仍然徘徊。 由於他們您可以有消極評斷或對物理親熱的微妙的抵抗。 這些評斷和情緒不基于真相。 再次我希望說身體是無辜的。使您渴望性联盟的情熱、慾望和所有物理过程是自然，健康過程。 在性別區域發生的不平衡狀態幾乎總是归结于非物質的水平，我現在談論了二。

第四個和最后水平是頭腦的方面。 在精神水平上可以有保留您從享受性別的道德或精神信仰。 多數這些信仰是宗教本质上。

在精神水平上您可以认为体格是一种監獄。 「更高的領土的」非物質的現實(因为您叫他們，不是I)是，因此讚美物理現實得到低估。這在lightworkers之中常常地發生。 特别是在他們之中經常有對性別可能提供的樂趣和享受的抵抗。這部分抽去從宗教和道德信仰和部分從與生活的這個方面的純粹無經驗。多数lightworker靈魂度过了許多終身作為教士，尼姑或相似的角色，撤出從社區，不用夥伴或家庭。 他們非常集中于精神性別區域被忽略了。

在精神或宗教人民經常有缺乏對身體的尊敬在它的自然表示。 這真實地是遺憾的對它是表示入在我們的邊被看待是靈魂的最神聖的旅途能继续的問題。 到目前為止要播種和收割您的神性種子遠離家在問題和形式的現實中是神聖的事業。 它是一次神，創造性的行動最高位。

或許您某時是存在某人的臨終或您目擊了分娩。 在那些片刻内，靈魂輸入或讓去與問題的舞蹈。 兩及时由神聖大氣圍攏。您能感覺此作為深，包圍沈默充满宣佈來臨或离开靈魂的榮譽。 有，但是在我們的面紗的邊的非常尊敬什麼的您做在那些片刻。 與問題的舞蹈是神聖的。并且您那么經常厭恨它!

在它真實的意思的性別是在問題之上同時上升的問題的一個舞蹈。 在平衡的性自我表現您仅超越物質現實，无需忽略或抑制它，无需放棄更低的三chakras和，不用尋找的銷魂通过上部chakras。 完全性別集成所有水平的您是。 性別缩小問題和精神之间的差距。

当二個人是完全親密的用一個愛戀的方式时，在他們的身體的所有細胞振動一少許更加快速-他們开始跳舞有點。門戶對精力充沛的現實被打開以有一點更高的振動和一種更輕的感覺。 在一性加入哪些你們大家參與-您的身体、靈魂和頭腦-您以後同時感到平安和快樂。有安靜的銷魂。 您的身体細胞品嘗了愛能量，并且在那片刻您帶來了愛的現實一点離您較近。您開闢了那么非常希望流經您，并且有對您的性自然的仅最巨大的尊敬愛的神的能量。

如果在所有四的能量一起成水平流程在一性加入，它是神的創作行動。 孩子從這樣行動怀只是自然的。當男性和女性舞蹈在這樣一個歡悅方式執行，只有善良和甜可能來它。 如果孩子被設想用這樣方式，它输入在愛和光幻燈片的地球領土。它是靈魂在地球上可能有的最愛戀的歡迎。

由于性能量是很珍貴的，我們要求您： 請恭敬地应付您的性別。 当有問題、恐懼或者緊張在它附近时，本身不要判斷性別也不要对它不抱希望，為了它是一個自然部分的您和一神聖一个。

性問題和性的爭鬥

我現在希望进入性別的歷史然后說某事關於婦女和人現今在他們的性自我表現有的具體問題。

在區域發生了性。 在它的核心性別運載光巨大潛力，但是因此也有在巨大誤用的潛力。 我希望講話的歷史是一个在男人和婦女之間的权力争夺。當地球外的太空星群的帝國开始干涉在地球上的時候，生活這歷史是古老的和實際上開始了。 (為這個過程明细帐参见「Lightworker系列」在這個網站上)。 以前那地球是一种天堂，秀麗和無罪戰勝的伊甸园。我們不會談論這個時代在这儿，而是注意到，您到在大于5,000年权力争夺的结尾階段之内书面歷史。

进入這歷史最后階段，人明顯地扮演犯人和壓迫者的角色。 但是它沒如此總是。 有婦女是強有力在公眾並且生活私有領域的时期。她壓迫了男性能量用殘暴和殘暴的方式。 婦女不自然地是壓迫或被制服的性，您知道，亦不根據定義是她最愛戀的性。作為婦女甜點您陳腔濫調，但是無力和人象堅韌，但是厚臉皮說更多關於上述的歷史的最后階段比關於同樣地男人和婦女。

那裡有是把女家長社會被认为標準的书面歷史日期填早的时期。在那些时期之内婦女在一個破壞性的方式也使用了他們的能量，是不恭的在每人的單獨生活力量和創造性。 当婦女有在人时的力量有时候。婦女控制了并且操作了人通過使用情感和直覺的力量他們有自然親合力與。 他們也使用了他們的精神能力控制人。 例如有人被拷打并且被殺害的犧牲和儀式。

我想要為您的正式歷史注重這個方面画聯繫的一張一支持的圖片在男人和婦女之間。 婦女壓迫由人的是顯然的在您的书面歷史包括的整期間。但是人顯示了的憐惜和仇恨(和仍然可以顯示)反對婦女未来自沒什麼。除影響他們的文化傳統和習性之外，也有源於一個更旧的時代在集體男性靈魂的深情感創傷。

沒有詳述關於這個時代，我希望邀請您為你自己感覺是否是可能的您體驗了此。 对于婦女問題是： 您能否想像您曾经施加了在人的力量，并且您順利地设法控制他們的能量？ 并且為人問題是：能您想像這大規模地發生了，并且您是「更加微弱的性？」 可能您將通过问這個問題接受某些圖像或幻想裡面。 讓您的直覺展示您并且觀看浮出水面的情感。這也许驚奇。

因此在集體男性之內，靈魂仇恨和怨氣有出现的历史。 這在女性能量的壓迫出来了在政治區域，而且在宗教區域，特別通过教會。性別是有罪的或最好一種必要的罪惡是一條男性線認為那仇恨影響想法并且吝惜起因于男性性別抑制在另一個時代。男性性別那時认为為生育的一臺儀器，不用對人和父親和他的孩子间的情感关系的感覺邊的尊敬。通常孩子由分離的母親培养從父親，并且幾乎不所有注意给予了对什麼父親想法和要。 重要價值通过母親形象传递，并且人劣等是一這樣價值。人是耕馬而不是一個相等的夥伴。

除是的教會之外沮喪的男性能量舷牆，科學世界也顯示敵意對女性能量。雖然科學和宗教在許多尊敬天敌，他們在他們的對女性能量的直覺，流動的方面的抵抗被團結。 教會教條是剛性和抑止，但是科学方法太限制以另一方式。当在現代科學之後的推動是明晰和創新的(在慾望廢黜錯誤當局)时，它陷在了不允许女性能量參與的一种狹窄的合理認為。科學認為是分析和邏輯的，但是它不開放足够對想像力和對觀察的超感覺力的(直覺的)來源。反感許多科學家必須「奇異」然而和對不可能用合理的推理解释的任何部分归结于追溯到时候的痛苦和屈辱靈魂記憶，当婦女濫用精神力量和使用了反對他們作为操作的儀器。

我講話這历史，因為我希望清楚地做那在性的「爭鬥」那裡是終於沒有違者和受害者，沒有「善良者和坏人」，因為您全部是兩個。它是在這些能量成為對面的男性和女性能量之間的奮鬥，而他們最初互相是補全的。在這天和變老人，并且婦女被邀請再協力和再發現女性和男性原始的舞蹈的喜悅和榮譽。

本质上，当男性能量服务并且保護时，女性能量是主導和啟發。 女性能量是在所有創作之後的啟發; 男性方面照料在形式和行動的顯示。兩能量是否通过每人运作，通过每個個體，男性或女性。 您是否是男人或婦女不是真正地相關的; 它是平衡，并且兩能量之间的關係在您之內那計數。

在女性性別的封鎖

我在性別區域現在將講話明確地适用于婦女或人的能量封鎖。在婦女，它是被打擊和傷害由於性壓迫和暴力在世紀期间第一和第二chakra的區域(尾骨和臍)。相當有些千年婦女被構築了入在幾乎社會所有區域的一個有用的角色，并且這為地球的許多地方仍然去。關於性別，這不平等大規模地體現了作為強姦、攻擊和屈辱。 由於這許多婦女的確集體女性靈魂，難以置信地遭受了。有深深需要时刻、愛和最大關心癒合的情感創傷。

通常性联盟的驅動由婦女感覺作为心臟的渴望或作为一種精神感覺。但是，当他們得到完全親密时他們也许发现他們不可能自由地表達他們的性能量由於能量封鎖用第一和第二chakra。在那些能源中心有(是牽強在他們和欺凌他們性別的靈魂)記憶。 這些經驗是很痛苦的婦女撤出了她的能量，她的從腹部的區域的知覺。当這個身体部位再現在接近用一個性方式时，肌肉本能地拉緊或情感身體自動地發信號抵抗。 物理細胞知道精神創傷，并且那么容易地不与邀請跳舞匹配。他們想要關閉和創造障礙保護您免受更多侵略。 這反應是完全地可理解的，并且應該總是应付一個最恭敬的方式。使用任何种力量拿走抵抗用再違犯創傷中心的方式。

当您有這些情感作為婦女时，变得完全意識與他們是非常重要的; 也许有憤怒那裡，抵抗或者恐懼關於物理親熱。 并且所有這些情感比您甚而是的關係比這終身經常旧，老。 也许有非常在導致了深情感傷痕的那些最低的chakras的老精神創傷。

特别地我會勸告认可這痛苦瞭解終身他們是違者或犯人的婦女(與受害者相對)。或者，如果您发现难訪問早先終身，與接觸與違者或強有力的婦女的「能量」在您裡面。 這也许听起来非常奇怪，但是原因是這。当您是性暴力的受害者时這在您的能量領域導致了很多憤怒。 也许有憤怒那裡從幾終身。 這憤怒在無力和受害時期的感覺阻攔您并且保留您被監禁。發布您需要瞭解的憤怒。 您為什麼需要瞭解，并且什麼為; 您需要看更大的圖片。当您能想像自己作為可能是殘忍的和殘暴往人和感覺裡面的一名強有力的婦女时這也是部分的您，然後憤怒可能溶化。更加徹底的理解可能出现，知道的裡面您是您扮演違者的角色和的受害者一個更大的負面的故事的一部分。發布您的痛苦、無力和受害時期的情感是幾乎不可能的，无需也看另一邊的您， 「暗边」。

您不一定需要回到過去終身认可在您裡面的这黑暗的部分。 您能也发觉它通过觀看在您的每日生活中。 當您感覺這能量(即施加力量或傷害其他的意志)，您能感覺您不僅是外部情況的無能為力的受害者。 有違者和受害者间的一種負面的关系; 兩個角色反射方面的你自己。

當您知道并且接受您的暗边，您能用不同的方式看您自己的內在創傷和开始原諒。 当那裡瞭解时，憤怒可能溶化，并且您能與接觸與情感在之下層數： 悲傷，哀情，在那裡在許多水平上的痛苦，也在身體。

承認在他們自己的違者方面和与它一起使用婦女是非常重要的。当有在您的仇恨和憐惜關於性別时，意识到更多仇恨并且激怒您感覺，越多您辨認與受害者的角色，并且越多您搶奪自己您的自由。设法感覺裡面您在性別競技場一場負面的比賽在哪些打您履行了兩個角色，善良者並且坏人。 從那裡您可能到地方饒恕-原諒並且別人。 事為原因發生。暴行和抑制也许似乎無意義，但是總是有在他們之後的一個故事。 并且，每當有性的暴力在人上的所有四個水平介入了它留下深刻印象。

在男性性別的封鎖

關於性別的男性經驗，發生的封鎖主要在心臟或頭上的水平。 在這些水平也许有對投降的恐懼，對深刻的情感親熱的恐懼。多数时间這恐懼比您能記住到達更遠的后面。 它與婦女控制人的時代关连。 這做了比賽性吸引，那最初是無辜和自發的，威脅。人获悉公開顯示他們的情感和打開他們的心臟對他們的夥伴是危險的。

在人之內有對投降的根深蒂固的恐懼嚮他們的感覺邊，并且這些恐懼需要不一定明顯在实际水平上。 他們也许参加性物理行動，当保留他們的感覺时分離。因此人也许是性存在实际水平，当他感覺的自然是(部分地)时缺席的。 他的情感被鎖由於他的恐懼再次開放和变得脆弱對拒绝。有老靈魂記憶那裡被放棄和情感結疤。 

耐心和愛

一般来说能量封鎖是有些不同的在男人和婦女。 所以互相公開溝通關於是非常重要的什麼您感覺并且感覺您什么时候一起是。当您真實地信任您的夥伴时，您能毫無遺憾地調查您的性能量得到陷進的地方，当您是親密的时。您能通过发觉做的這，當有升起在您之間的興奮和親熱流程，您在何種程度上允许自己感覺和表達它。看見您是否感覺陷進或阻攔在您的身体的任何部分或在您的情感和感覺的任何部分。 当您一起时，是您是否感覺溫暖的煥發在您的心臟？您是否感覺往其他的精神開放性？ 您准备着遇見其他在他們的全部？

它听起来奇怪，但是您害怕真正的親熱。 您全部強烈渴望一個履行的關係。 在街道上幾乎每個廣告牌提到理想情感地和性稱心的關係。但是真實的親熱嚇唬您。 当別人來非常緊密时，并且您请求離開所有您的面具，各種各樣的禁止出现您不知道。在他們浮出水面嘗試判斷的你自己它的片刻内。 反而看見它是機會調查在您之內的那些禁止和封鎖。 没人免于他們。幾乎所有人民有防止他們體驗在充分的感覺的性別的封鎖我首先描述了。所以我想要要求您全部看性能量流程在您裡面的以愛戀的了悟-您是否是單獨或在關係-和對待您小心發現并且尊敬的那些封鎖。力量是這些事态的最壞的顧問。 耐心和愛是重要的。

保留渴望活性別的真實和完全的經驗! 您不需要丢掉有浴水的嬰孩。 慾望是聲音。 嚮性別的充分和快樂的經驗的路也许是長和繞。 但是沿路您將生長你自己的愛和同情並且其他的，并且這是那么巨大地可貴的在您人的世界。

您癒合奮鬥的历史在男人和婦女之間的。 男性和女性能量想要再一起來和加入喜悅和創造性舞蹈。 您造成此在一個單獨水平的任何有對男人和婦女集體靈魂的正面影響。 您的自我憐愛做能量耐心和愛可利用為其他。